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What is EMDR Therapy ?

Updated: Mar 7



Therapist performing EMDR therapy.

EMDR Therapy is Fast and Direct

If you've suffered trauma or highly stressful events in your life, they can leave a lasting impact, affecting not just your mental health but also your overall well-being. For many people, traditional talk therapy feels too activating. Talk therapy often requires dwelling on the painful memories for long periods of time. And yes, healing in talk therapy can be slow. This is where Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) comes into play. Research shows that healing with EMDR tends to be faster. EMDR is a transformative approach that offers hope and healing for those grappling with the aftermath of trauma. Let’s dive into why EMDR might be the right choice for you or someone you care about.


EMDR is a Safe, Evidence-Based Treatment

When seeking trauma counseling, you want to feel safe. EMDR is not just a trendy therapy; it is backed by extensive research. Numerous studies demonstrate its effectiveness in treating PTSD, anxiety, and other trauma-related disorders. Organizations like the American Psychological Association and the World Health Organization endorse EMDR as an evidence-based treatment.

What does this mean for you? It means that EMDR has undergone rigorous testing and has consistently shown positive outcomes for patients. The therapy is conducted by trained EMDR therapists who create a safe and supportive environment. This structured approach ensures that you can explore painful memories without feeling overwhelmed.


EMDR Acts Quickly to Relieve PTSD Symptoms

One of the most appealing aspects of EMDR is its speed. Many people find that they experience significant relief from PTSD symptoms within just a few sessions. Traditional forms of counseling can take months or even years to yield results, but EMDR therapy is designed to work efficiently.

The therapy typically involves eight phases, starting with a thorough assessment of your history and current symptoms. Once you begin, the therapist helps you focus on specific traumatic memories while guiding you through bilateral stimulation, often through guided eye movements. This dual focus helps your brain process the memories in a way that reduces their emotional charge.


The Nature of Trauma and Unprocessed Memories

To understand why EMDR is effective, it’s essential to grasp how trauma affects the brain. When we experience a traumatic event, our brains often struggle to process the memories associated with that event. Instead of being stored as ordinary memories, these traumatic experiences can become fragmented and unprocessed.


As a result, everyday situations can trigger reminders of the trauma, leading to flashbacks, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts. You might find yourself reliving the event or ruminating on it at inopportune times. This cycle can be exhausting and isolating, making it difficult for you to engage fully in your life.


How EMDR Helps Process Traumatic Memories

The beauty of EMDR lies in its ability to help the brain reprocess these unprocessed memories. By engaging with the distressing memories in a controlled setting, EMDR allows you to desensitize those memories and integrate them into your life narrative. The bilateral stimulation (whether through eye movements, taps, or sounds) acts as a catalyst that enables your brain to access these memories without becoming overwhelmed. Then the process helps your brain to pair the memory with a more positive association, so the memory no longer paralyzes you.


During an EMDR session, you’ll focus on a specific traumatic memory while the therapist guides you through the stimulation process. This helps your brain to reframe the memory, reducing its emotional intensity. Over time, you’ll notice that the memories no longer hold the same power over you. The memory becomes just that—a memory, rather than an active threat in your present.


Leading to Deep Healing

Many individuals report not only symptom relief but also profound healing after undergoing EMDR. By processing trauma, you can experience a sense of liberation from the burdens that have held you back. This deep healing often leads to improved self-esteem, better relationships, and a renewed sense of purpose in life.


As you work through your trauma with EMDR, you may find that you start to feel more in control of your emotions and reactions. The therapy fosters resilience and empowers you to reclaim your narrative. Rather than being defined by traumatic experiences, you become the author of your own story.


Real-Life Impact of EMDR

As therapists, we're still amazed when we witness how EMDR changes lives. Clients come to us flooded with anger or fear or hurt, and in just one EMDR session, we often see them bring their distress down from a level 10 to a one or zero. This applies whether it's a veteran who is struggling with PTSD from combat, or a spouse devastated by a cheating spouse, or an employee tired of a boss's disrespect--anyone who feels trapped in memories of their experiences. Of course, more profound trauma typically takes more sessions to work through, but usually progress is measurable in each session. Through EMDR, clients find a way to process disturbing memories and go on with life, often reporting a newfound sense of peace.


EMDR doesn't only work for acute trauma. It also helps individuals who experienced difficult childhoods and who carry the weight of repeated bullying or parental abuse into adulthood. EMDR provides such clients with a toolkit for healing, enabling them to break free from cycles of anxiety and depression.


What to Expect in an EMDR Session

If you’re considering EMDR, it’s important to know what to expect. The first session usually involves an assessment where your therapist will gather information about your history and symptoms. You will discuss your traumatic experiences, but don’t worry—you won’t have to delve into every detail right away.


Once you begin the actual EMDR process, you’ll focus on specific memories while engaging in bilateral stimulation. This can mean following a moving dot on screen with your eyes or it can mean tapping on your own knees left to right. There are multiple ways to do EMDR, but all involve alternate left to right stimulation. The therapist will guide you through the process, ensuring you feel safe and supported. It’s a collaborative effort, and you’ll have the opportunity to share your feelings and experiences throughout.


Common Misconceptions About EMDR

Despite its effectiveness, some misconceptions about EMDR persist. One common myth is that EMDR is just a “quick fix.” While it can lead to rapid relief, the process of healing from trauma is often complex and requires commitment.


Another misconception is that EMDR is only for severe trauma. In reality, EMDR can be beneficial for anyone who has experienced distressing events, no matter how big or small. If you find that past experiences are affecting your present, EMDR may be worth exploring.


Choosing to address trauma is a courageous step, and EMDR offers a viable path toward healing. With its evidence-based approach, quick results and ability to process unprocessed memories, EMDR provides hope for those feeling trapped by their past.


If you’ve been struggling with the effects of trauma or highly stressful events, consider reaching out to a qualified EMDR therapist. Healing is possible, and you deserve to live a life free from the shadows of your past. EMDR might just be the key to unlocking that brighter future. EMDR Associates is here to help.



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